I just stepped off my third repositioning cruise, and my first one with all three of my bio kids. I really love transatlantic cruising with kids as a relaxing way to get from continent to continent and a slow transition through the time changes.
On my first transatlantic repositioning cruise, I was 25 with a 2-year-old heading to Europe. I had big dreams of living in Spain, where half of his father's family was from. We were going to land in Barcelona and settle in Valencia's Barrio del Carmen, the historic Roman section of town, where the apartments sat cradled in old stone buildings above coffee shops and bakeries. The Central Market lay right in the middle of the star of cobblestone streets and alleys where we would shop daily for our meals.
I was young and on the cusp of adventure. I had heard somewhere that getting to Europe could actually be more cost-effective via a repositioning cruise, and that transatlantic cruising with kids was an enjoyable and gentle way for them to transition to the time change without jet lag.
I looked online, found a deal, and booked it with my previous year's tax return, throwing caution to the wind. I had no idea what to expect. I'll be honest, I wasn't exactly excited about spending two weeks on a boat in the middle of the ocean, but it was also two weeks of food, a nice room with a private balcony, and passage to Spain.
It turned out to be one of my favorite travel memories, and became one of my favorite ways to travel. Now I love transatlantic cruising with kids! There are ways to make the experience even better. This is my list of tips and tricks to make the voyage as smooth as possible.
Transatlantic Cruising with Kids – Booking Tips:
1. Look Ahead to Snag a Good Deal on a Good Cruise Line
Booking early is key to scoring a sweet deal on a transatlantic cruise, especially when traveling with kids. The prime window is typically a year out when cruise lines unleash their best promos to entice bookings. Set up alerts, keep an eye on promotions, and don't be shy to jump on those early bird offers. Your wallet will thank you, and the anticipation of a fantastic family voyage will make the wait all the more exciting! Vacations to Go is my favorite site for upcoming cruise deals and last minute offers.
Cruise lines offer booking perks like free gratuities, onboard credit, or discounted fares. But don't just focus on price; consider factors like kids' clubs, family-friendly amenities, and cabin configurations. Cunard and Disney are renowned for catering to families. With some savvy planning, you can turn an Atlantic crossing into an unforgettable adventure for the whole crew without breaking the bank.
2. Spring for the Balcony!
One of my best tips for transatlantic cruising with kids is to spring for a balcony cabin. Trust me, you'll thank yourself later. Those tiny cabins can feel suffocating, especially with the whole family crammed in. But a balcony? Game-changer! It's like having an extra room to escape to, offering a peaceful oasis away from the hustle and bustle of the ship. The fresh sea air and private outdoor space are invaluable when you need a breather from the crowds. Kids can burn off energy on the balcony, and you can enjoy a quiet cup of coffee while taking in the stunning ocean views.
Plus, the extra room means you won't feel as cramped and claustrophobic during those long days at sea. It's worth the splurge for the added comfort and sanity-saving benefits of having your own balcony retreat.
Transatlantic Cruising with Kids – Preparation Tips:
3. Utilize Pre-Cruise Planning Tools
Pre-cruise planning is a game-changer. Honestly – it is something I am often pretty bad about doing, but it really does help when cruising transatlantic with kids. Utilize the cruise line's online tools to research kid-friendly activities, reserve spots in youth programs, and book shore excursions tailored to your family's interests. Having a solid plan ensures your kids stay engaged and entertained throughout the journey. Plus, you'll snag prime reservations for popular activities before they fill up. It's a small investment of time that pays off big in creating a stress-free, memorable experience for everyone.
I like to leave a lot of padding for free time, rest and general relaxation while on board. Sea days are my favorite! I tend to like to leave the exploring of towns and cities to when I am no longer cruising, but everyone does it differently. Just don't forget to leave time to relax poolside or on your private balcony.
4. Set Realistic Expectations
Transatlantic cruising with kids can be an unforgettable adventure, but it's crucial to set realistic expectations. Kids get bored easily, and the vast expanse of ocean, no matter how picturesque, won't hold their attention for long. Plan for ample activities, both on board and during port stops, to keep them engaged.
Understand that they'll likely need more frequent breaks and downtime than adults. Be prepared for tantrums, meltdowns, and possible sickness. Don't expect them to sit still for lengthy formal dinners or appreciate the onboard enrichment lectures. Embrace the chaos and cherish the moments of wonder and discovery through their eyes. With the right mindset and preparation, a transatlantic cruise can be an incredible family experience.
Be sure to set realistic expectations for yourself as well. If you have littles, chances are you'll be dining in the buffet much more often than the nice restaurants. Just stay flexible and everyone will have a good time.
5. Plan Itinerary and Excursions as a Family
Planning the itinerary and excursions as a family is crucial for a memorable transatlantic cruise with kids. Sit down together and discuss the activities and destinations that pique everyone's interest. Make a list of must-see attractions, cultural experiences, and adventurous pursuits. Allocate time for both structured outings and free exploration, allowing flexibility for spontaneous discoveries. Definetely don't be afraid to go off the beaten path either. You do not need to do all of your excursions with the cruise line, in fact I never do.
For my kids and I, our favorite outings are the ones we organize ourselves. While everyone else is riding a 2.5 hour bus from Le Havre to Paris and taking pictures in a big group for three hours only to turn back around and get on the same bus in the opposite direction, you can explore the much closer medieval town of Rouen or picturesque Honfleur without fighting the crowds.
Don't forget to factor in downtime for relaxation and recharging. Involve the kids in the planning process, letting them have a say in the activities they find appealing. This fosters excitement, engagement, and a sense of ownership over the trip. Additionally, research age-appropriate excursions and activities tailored to your children's interests and energy levels. Striking the right balance between educational experiences and pure fun is key to keeping the whole family engaged and entertained throughout the journey.
6. Plan for Sickness
When embarking on a transatlantic cruise with kids, it's crucial to plan for potential sickness. Seasickness, flu, and stomach bugs can easily spread in confined spaces. Pack plenty of remedies like ginger candies, herbal teas and tinctures, wristbands, and over-the-counter meds (if that's your jam). Bring a well-stocked travel med kit with your go-to tools for treating fevers and respiratory illnesses as well. I always allocate a decent amount of space in my suitcase for supplements, vitamins, a red light therapy device, electrolyte packets (LMNT or Re-Lyte), and my own water bottle.
Have a plan for isolating sick kids in your cabin to prevent spreading germs – another reason to get that balcony room. Being prepared can help you enjoy smooth sailing, even if someone feels under the weather. I cannot stress how important this is. My kids have pretty strong immune systems and we have dealt with illness a few times on cruises. It's easy to get sick on board.
7. Bring Favorite Snacks, Comfort Items, and Water Bottles
When cruising across the Atlantic with kids, it's a great idea to bring their favorite snacks and comfort items to keep them content and entertained during the long journey. Familiar treats and toys can provide a sense of familiarity and security, making the transition smoother. On this last cruise, my older daughter brought her American girl doll with plenty of outfits and even a little suitcase, while my younger daughter brought along her favorite baby doll. My son's backpack was full of small, travel-sized board games.
Additionally, pack a reusable water bottle or container to store and cool water in the room so you don't have to keep running up and down the stairs to get water throughout the day. Your best bet would be to bring your Kangen machine and hook it right up to the faucet in your bathroom – if you have one! Another option is to bring a filter to keep in the room and refill your bottles with. One that fits in a mini fridge is perfect!
8. Plan for Inconsistent Internet
Ships these days have a variety of internet packages, but they are EXTREMELY expensive and still not great. For example, on our most recent transatlantic cruise, the unlimited premium internet for one device was $250 for the full two weeks and $750 for up to four devices. Another cruise I went on this year (11 days, not transatlantic) charged $400 for the unlimited premium internet for one device and $1200 for the four-pack. Even the top tier packages really are hit and miss. I was able to have a two hour zoom call one afternoon but couldn't even load my email inbox an hour later.
Hitting rough seas with shaky internet connection during transatlantic cruises can be a real headache, especially when traveling with kids or trying to get work done (me!). Try not to work if you can while sailing – don't be like me (I was in the middle of three different real estate transactions while on board my last voyage!) I know most people see cruises as vacation time but I'm talking to all of you digital nomads and entrepreneurs out there. Don't be like me. Take this time off and don't stress over the crappy internet.
9. Download Media Before You Go
Don't let the spotty Internet keep you from getting cozy and watching a family movie. Before setting sail, load up tablets, laptops, and phones with movies, games, ebooks, and music. Also, throw an HDMI cord in your bag so you can plug your laptop into the TV for a better movie watching experience. There are movies you can watch on your in-room TV, but most cruise lines have very limited options and they charge $10 or more per rental. We definitely prefer the pre-downloaded option. Some families even bring a gaming console for the kids.
Bonus: you'll avoid potential sticker shock of the costly Internet packages just to stream content if you are fully prepped. Load up your devices with movies, shows, and games before setting sail, but don't forget to bring the screen-free entertainment like toys and games too!
This go-round, I also packed a kindle for each kid and loaded them up with their current reads and some I thought might be good when they finished up those. Pro tip: you can get kindle books from your local public library! Entertainment is your secret weapon against boredom.
10. Pack Screen-Free Entertainment Options
The internet onboard is shitty. We have established this. Plan for it by downloading media pre-departure, and also by packing other options. Books, board games, dolls, crafts – whatever it is your kids love. Your kids likes knitting? Bring yarn and knitting needles. Another is a budding artist? Be sure to pack a sketchbook and pastels.
We love gaming as a family, so my son packed an entire backpack full of travel-sized board games: Tiny Epic Defenders, Quest, Pirates, and Dungeon. He also brought Bonanza, One Deck Dungeon and Hero Realms. We also made use of the onboard game library (shout out to Holland America Rotterdam's game library as one of the better ones we've seen onboard!). While this is no comparison to our 300+ game collection at home, it was definitely a nice option for onboard entertainment.
11. Familiarize Yourself with Kids Club Policies Beforehand
It's important to thoroughly familiarize yourself with the policies and guidelines set by the cruise line's kids club before embarking on a transatlantic cruise with kids. These clubs offer supervised activities and entertainment for children of various age groups, allowing parents some much-needed downtime. However, each cruise line has its own unique set of rules regarding drop-off and pick-up procedures, age restrictions, activity schedules, and any additional fees.
On my first transatlantic voyage, I found out after boarding that my son was too young for the kids' club. By proactively reviewing these policies, you'll avoid unpleasant surprises and ensure a seamless experience for both you and your little ones. It's also wise to inquire about any special requirements or accommodations needed for children with specific needs or dietary restrictions. Don't hesitate to clarify any ambiguities or ask questions beforehand, as a well-informed approach can significantly enhance your family's enjoyment of the voyage.
Transatlantic Cruising with Kids – On Board Tips:
12. Create a Routine
Creating a routine is essential when embarking on a transatlantic cruise with kids. It'll help maintain a sense of normalcy and familiarity amidst the excitement and new surroundings. Start your day with a consistent wake-up time (this also helps with the time changes), followed by familiar activities like breakfast and getting dressed. Plan out mealtimes, nap schedules, and bedtime routines to ensure your little ones stay well-rested and nourished.
Don't forget to incorporate fun activities like visiting the kids' club, swimming, or attending family-friendly shows to keep them engaged and entertained if those are things they're into. A predictable routine will not only help your kids feel secure but also give you pockets of downtime to enjoy the cruise experience.
13. Establish a Meeting Point
Whether you're sailing across the Atlantic or just cruising the Caribbean, having a designated meeting spot is a must when traveling with kids. Kids wander, and cruise ships are massive mazes of corridors, restaurants, and activity centers. It's easy for little ones to get turned around. Before boarding, establish a central location—maybe the ship's atrium or the main pool area—where you'll reconvene if anyone gets separated. Be specific about the time and place. Teach kids what to do if they can't find you: stay put and ask a crew member for help. With a clear plan in place, you can relax and enjoy the voyage without stressing about lost kids.
14. Remain Flexible
Life aboard a cruise ship is an exciting adventure, but it can be a demanding one, especially when traveling with kids. That's why it's crucial to embrace flexibility as you navigate the ups and downs of transatlantic cruising. Kids' moods, interests, and energy levels can shift rapidly, so you'll need to be prepared to adjust your plans on the fly. Don't get too attached to a rigid schedule or itinerary. Instead, be open to spontaneous activities, impromptu naps, or even a day spent lounging by the pool if that's what your little ones need.
Remember, the goal is to create happy memories, not adhere to a strict agenda. If your child isn't feeling a particular excursion or activity, don't force it. Pivot to something else that might capture their interest. Remain patient and adaptable, and you'll be better equipped to handle the inevitable curveballs that come with cruising with kids. It's all about rolling with the punches and embracing the unpredictable nature of family travel. With a flexible mindset, you'll be able to make the most of your transatlantic adventure, creating cherished memories along the way.
15. Document the Journey!
You gotta document this time with the kiddos. Snap plenty of pictures and video along the way. Those candid shots and videos will become priceless mementos, transporting you back to those unforgettable family moments. Plus, the kids will get a kick out of reliving the adventure years down the road. So go nuts with that shutter button and create a visual diary to share for years to come.